A costume isn't dress-up. It's permission. The moment you become someone else, you're allowed to say and do things you wouldn't so easily do as yourself. That's why roleplay works so well, and why sexy costumes are the bestsellers in our lingerie collection. These are seven outfits that always work, at home, for Halloween and at themed parties.
Why a costume works
You don't need to be a good actor. The costume does the work: a pleated skirt, a white collar, a little hat. Your partner sees a different person and responds differently. You feel different and behave differently. The game starts the moment you put it on.
Seven sexy costumes that always work
1. Schoolgirl. The classic, and not without reason. Checked mini skirt, white collar, stockings. Works at home and at themed parties with a school uniform theme.
2. Cleaner. Black and white, short apron, laces. Playful and a little submissive, or bossy. A 4-piece set has everything included.
3. Nurse. White, short, with a cap. "I've come to check how you're doing." You don't need more lines than that.
4. Police officer. Whoever has the handcuffs is in charge. Combine with the handcuffs from the BDSM collection.
5. Mrs Claus. Red with white faux fur, in a latex look or as a nightdress. The gift tip for December, and the only costume that can also go under the Christmas tree.
6. Cosplay and anime. For those who'd rather be a character than a profession. A cosplay lingerie set or anime bodysuit, often with ears or a tail.
7. For him: the waiter. Bow tie, cuffs, a thong. He serves, you order. The only men's costume everyone instantly gets.
From our shop
- Erotic schoolgirl – the classic
- 4-piece cleaner – everything included
- Sexy nurse – white and short
- Police officer roleplay – whoever has the cuffs is in charge
From our shop
- Latex wetlook Mrs Claus – for December
- 4-piece cosplay lingerie set – a character instead of a profession
- Anime bodysuit – for the fans
- Erotic waiter for men – he serves
How to start the roleplay
- Agree on the roles beforehand. Who is who, and what the situation is. "You come home and the cleaner is still at work." You don't need more scenario than that.
- Start small. One line in character is enough. Giggling is allowed, it's part of it and it fades on its own.
- Agree on how to stop. A word or gesture that takes you out of the role. That's exactly what lets you dare to go further.
- Keep the costume on. It stays more exciting when the role keeps going.
Halloween and themed parties
Around Halloween, a sexy costume is the easiest way to have a party outfit that's still useful at home afterwards. Choose a costume with a real role (police officer, nurse, Mrs Claus) rather than a cheap dress-up outfit: it looks better and stays wearable. After Halloween comes December: what to wear then is covered in the article on Christmas lingerie and Mrs Claus outfits. At erotic themed parties, such as the changing themes at Crazyland or the school uniform nights at Belgian couples' clubs, a costume is the dress code. Which party asks for what is explained in the overview of erotic parties.
At strict fetish parties a uniform counts too, but it has to look serious: leather look or latex look instead of thin polyester. Read what counts as a fetish dress code.
From our shop
- Latex wetlook mini dress with white collar – uniform look that counts as fetish
- PU leather mini dress with open back – tough enough for a fetish party
The right size and the right accessories
Costumes are often sets made of stretch fabric: if you're between two sizes, choose the smaller one. Check exactly what's included (stockings, hat, handcuffs aren't always in the set). High stockings and heels finish off any costume. A blindfold or handcuffs turn the costume into a game.
From our shop
- Sheer fishnet stockings – go with any costume
- Wrist and ankle cuffs for in bed – from costume to game
Also read
- Christmas lingerie: from Mrs Claus outfit to red lingerie set, how to make it a naughty Christmas
- Choosing a sexy lingerie set: how to find the set that suits you
- Erotic parties in the Netherlands and Belgium: 25 parties and what to wear
- BDSM for beginners: how to start safely and excitingly
- Kinky outfit for a fetish party: how to meet the dress code
Frequently asked questions
What is roleplay in bed?
You act out a situation together with roles you aren't in real life: schoolgirl and teacher, patient and nurse, police officer and suspect. The costume makes the game believable and gives you permission to be different from your usual self.
Which sexy costume is good for Halloween?
Choose a costume with a real role that you can also wear at home: nurse, police officer, schoolgirl or Mrs Claus in latex look. These look better than a thin dress-up outfit and stay wearable.
Which size should I choose for a sexy costume?
Costumes are usually made of stretch fabric. If you're between two sizes, choose the smaller one so it stays snug. Check the size chart on the product page, as brands differ.
Can you wear a sexy costume to a party?
Yes, at erotic themed parties and in couples' clubs with a theme night, a costume is the dress code. At strict fetish parties the uniform has to look serious, preferably in leather look or latex look.
How do I start roleplay without feeling awkward?
Agree on the roles and the situation beforehand, start with one line, and agree on a word that takes you out of the role. Giggling is part of it. The costume does the rest.
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